Lol def me. But I’ve been working towards that after picture
Yeah… I push away the chip I’m usually eating when I see those photos! Why is it you’re always eating or about to eat or just ate after seeing those photos?! Lol or maybe that’s just me
Southern hospitality. I went out with my cousins from the north today and they were confused when I talked to all of the sales people
How funny! I’ve mostly toned down my southern ways now that I’m living in L.A. I had to after men took it the wrong way when I called them “Honey”. I usually revert back to my old self when I’m in a good mood (ie my belly’s full) or my hubby’s with me. He’s Mr. Social so we’re always talking it up with people and are the last to leave parties.
i missed you : )
I noticed and missed you! Where are you guys going?
You guys are soooooo sweet (insert smiley face)!
To answer your question, we’re going to Santa Barbara, my home away from home. I absolutely love that place.
I would pay for myself. I mean I dont mind doing that, but I probably wouldnt pay for him until we’ve been dating for a little minute. I dont expect him to cash out for everything. Lol If we’re at a movie Ill pay formyself and just dip in his popcorn
I’m really glad you wrote this because you reminded me of another point I want to make. Specifically, when going out on a date (or even when you leave your house) you should always have enough money to pay for yourself and/or things. Be prepared for the unexpected. Like I said, a friend of mine went out on a first date and when the $90 bill came her date said he didn’t have his wallet. Luckily she had a credit card.
Also, like I mentioned before, if you’ve discussed ahead of time who’s going to pay and it’s decided you’ll split the cost of tickets or whatever it’s fine if a woman pays for something on the first date. But, if you haven’t talked about it the man should pay. If he’s a broke college student then he should have enough sense to plan a date that won’t cost much if anything. The first date is all about making a good impression and showing a woman you know how to step up and be a man… be chivalrous. A lot of you guys are young so this may not seem important to you now but believe me when I say it will be if you and the guy get serious and start talking about marriage.
So, I’m not saying you should dump him completely if he doesn’t pass this basic first test but you should be looking out for other warning signs if you guys continue to talk.
That’s all I’m sayin’
dlintherealworld replied to your post:Real Talk- Who should pay on the first date?: I’ll pay but it has to be decided before the date. if it’s a movie, if he pays for tickets then I don’t mind buying popcorn. But nowadays the ticket costs about the same as the damn popcorn! It really depends on the guy and time is day of date.
I wouldn’t mind buying popcorn either. And, of course, the rules change after you’ve gone on a few dates or you’re dating each other exclusively… You can’t expect a guy to pay for everything at that point. But that’s for another post…